One of the sages of the Talmud taught nearly 200 years ago that God could have created a plant that would grow loaves of bread. Instead He created wheat for us to mill and bake into bread. Why? So that we could be HIs partners in completing the work of creation.
Harold S. KushnerAt some of the darkest moments in my life, some people I thought of as friends deserted me-some because they cared about me and it hurt them to see me in pain; others because I reminded them of their own vulnerability, and that was more than they could handle. But real friends overcame their discomfort and came to sit with me. If they had not words to make me feel better, they sat in silence (much better than saying, "You'll get over it," or "It's not so bad; others have it worse") and I loved them for it.
Harold S. KushnerIs there an answer to the question of why bad things happen to good people?...The response would beโฆto forgive the world for not being perfect, to forgive God for not making a better world, to reach out to the people around us, and to go on living despite it allโฆno longer asking why something happened, but asking how we will respond, what we intend to do now that it has happened.
Harold S. Kushner