Your emotional life is not written in cement during childhood. You write each chapter as you go along.

The psychiatric interviewer is supposed to be doing three things: considering what the patient could mean by what he says; considering how he himself can best phrase what he wishes to communicate to the patient; and, at the same time, observing the general pattern of the events being communicated. In addition to that, to make notes which will be of more than evocative value, or come anywhere near being a verbatim record of what is said, in my opinion is beyond the capacity of most human beings.

It is easier to act yourself into a new way of feeling than to feel yourself into a new way of acting.

Your emotional life is not written in cement during childhood. You write each chapter as you go along.

I do not believe that I have had an interview with anybody in twenty-five years in which the person to whom I was talking was not annoyed during the early part of the interview by my asking stupid questions.

The supply of interpretations, like that of advice, greatly exceeds the need for them.

What I am, at any given moment in the process of my becoming a person, will be determined by my relationships with those who love me or refuse to love me, with those whom I love or refuse to love.