There is a persistent funny form of suspicion in most of us that we can solve our own problems and be the masters of our own ships of life, but the fact of the matter is that by ourselves we can only be consumed by our problems and suffer the shipwreck.
Harry Stack SullivanIt may be possible through detachment, to gain knowledge that is 'useful;' but only through participation is it possible to gain the knowledge that is helpful.
Harry Stack SullivanIf you have to maintain self-esteem by pulling down the standing of others, you are extraordinarily unfortunate.
Harry Stack SullivanAs you love yourself, so shall you love others. Strange but true, with no exceptions.
Harry Stack SullivanEverybody has a great deal of experience in living. But no one lives in anything like the highest style of the art; and it is very disconcerting to notice how badly one lives in the sense of the extent to which fatigue and other discomforts are connected with one's important dealings with other people.
Harry Stack Sullivan