Conflict is the alchemical soup that transforms raw emotion and instinct into pure gold.

We always marry someone for the purpose of finishing our childhood.

Above all else, we seek connection - with parts of ourselves that we have repressed, with other people, and with the larger universe. We cannot experience life in its fullness unless we have an intimate relationship with another human being and, beyond that, a feeling of connection with the world around us.

Many divorced or widowed people do with their singleness what they should have done before they married for the first time: live alone, find their own rhythms, date a variety of people, go into therapy, develop new friends and interests, learn how to live with and care for themselves.

The depth of our love can be measured by our efforts. We demonstrate our love when we take that extra step.

When we meet an Imago match, that chemical reaction occurs, and love ignites. All other bets, all other ideas about what we want in a mate, are off. We feel alive and whole, confident that we have met the person who will make everything all right.

Conflict is the alchemical soup that transforms raw emotion and instinct into pure gold.