There can be no sexual love without lust; but, on the other hand, until the currents of lust in the organism have been irradiatedas to affect other parts of the psychic organism--at the least the affections and the social feelings--it is not yet sexual love. Lust, the specific sexual impulse, is indeed the primary and essential element in this synthesis, for it alone is adequate to the end of reproduction, not only in animals but in men. But it is not until lust is expanded and irradiated that it develops into the exquisite and enthralling flower of love.
Havelock EllisIt is only the great men who are truly obscene. If they had not dared to be obscene, they could never have dared to be great.
Havelock EllisThinking in its lower grades, is comparable to paper money, and in its higher forms it is a kind of poetry.
Havelock Ellis