The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing...that is a friend who cares.
Henri NouwenMuch violence is based on the illusion that life is a property to be defended and not to be shared.
Henri NouwenWhat is forgotten cannot be healed, and that which cannot be healed easily becomes the cause of greater evil.
Henri Nouwen