Dating should be a part of your life, not your life a part of dating. There is more to life than finding a date.

Dont use all-or-nothing thinking. Take each day as its own day, and dont worry about it if you mess up one day. The most important thing you can do is just get back up on the horse.

A good test of a relationship is how a person responds to the word 'no.' Love respects 'no,' control does not.

The twin sister to autonomy and freedom is responsibility and accountability. You cannot have one with out the other. If someone is given an area of responsibility, not only must they be set free to do it, they must also be held accountable for what they do. Accountability clarifies freedom. In the teams and companies where you see boundary confusion, power struggles, control, over-reaching of one's line of responsibility, you will also see lapses in accountability as well.

Be Hard on the issue, Soft on the person.

When leaders lead in ways that people's brains can follow, good results follow as well.

Diligence is not easy, but we can't reach our goals without it.