When a person travels through a few years with an organization, or with a partnership, or any other kind of working association, he leaves a 'wake' behind in these two areas, task and relationship: what did he accomplish and how did he deal with people?

That is why success and fruitfulness depend as much upon focusing on the "who" you are as much as the "what" of the work you do. Invest in your character, and it will give you the returns that you are looking for by only investing in the work itself. You can't do the latter without the former.

The mature person meets the demands of life, while the immature person demands that life meet her demands.

A leader's responsibility is to cause a vision and mission to have tangible results in the real world.

There is a big difference between hurt and harm. We all hurt sometimes in facing hard truths, but it makes us grow. It can be the source of huge growth. That is not harmful. Harm is when you damage someone. Facing reality is usually not a damaging experience, even though it can hurt.

Good pain is pain in the service of a purpose. Bad pain is pain endured because we are resisting a needed growth step.

Love can only exist where freedom and responsibility are operating.