After all the field of battle possesses many advantages over the drawing-room. There at least is no room for pretension or excessive ceremony, no shaking of hands or rubbing of noses, which make one doubt your sincerity, but hearty as well as hard hand-play. It at least exhibits one of the faces of humanity, the former only a mask.
Henry David ThoreauIt is hard to have a Southern overseer; it is worse to have a Northern one; but worst of all when you are yourself the slave-driver.
Henry David Thoreau