You've never lived what you are thinking, and that isn't good. Only the ideas we actually live are of any value.
Hermann HesseHe had thrown himself away, he had lost interest in everything, and life, falling in with his feelings, had demanded nothing of him. He had lived as an outsider, an idler and onlooker, well liked in his young manhood, alone in his illness and advancing years. Seized with weariness, he sat down on the wall, and the river murmured darkly in his thoughts.
Hermann HesseSeeking means: to have a goal; but finding means: to be free, to be receptive, to have no goal.
Hermann Hesse