Despotism accomplishes great things illegally; liberty doesn't even go to the trouble of accomplishing small things legally.
Honore de BalzacAt thirty years a woman asks her lover to give her back the esteem she has forfeited for his sake; she lives only for him, her thoughts are full of his future, he must have a great career, she bids him make it glorious; she can obey, entreat, command, humble herself, or rise in pride; times without number she brings comfort when a young girl can only make moan.
Honore de Balzac