That's the way to come to the Word of God. Read it as though it were His love letter to you.
Never do anything for a student that he he is capable of doing for himself. If you do you, you'll make him an educational cripple...a pedagogical paraplegic.
The teacher has not taught until the student has learned.
If you want to use your testosterone to grow hair, that's up to you.
Most people don't think, they just rearrange their prejudices.
There was no identity crisis in the life of Jesus Christ. He knew who He was. He knew where He had come from, and why he was here. And he knew where He was going. And when you are that liberated, then you can serve.