It's good to be selfish. But not so self-centered that you never listen to other people.
Hugh HefnerI got married before I found myself. People should find themselves before they get married.
Hugh HefnerIt's perfectly clear to me that religion is a myth. It's something we have invented to explain the inexplicable. My religion and the spiritual side of my life come from a sense of connection to the humankind and nature on this planet and in the universe. I am in overwhelming awe of it all: It is so fantastic, so complex, so beyond comprehension. What does it all mean -- if it has any meaning at all? But how can it all exist if it doesn't have some kind of meaning? I think anyone who suggests that they have the answer is motivated by the need to invent answers, because we have no such answers.
Hugh HefnerI think being connected to younger people helps to keep you young and gives you a young attitude.
Hugh Hefner