Although we love the idea of choice - our culture almost worships it - we seek refuge in the familiar and the comfortable.
Hugh MackayOne reason we resist making deliberate choices is that choice equals change and most of us, feeling the world is unpredictable enough, try to minimise the trauma of change in our personal lives.
Hugh MackayIndeed, in the present climate of mistrust of institutions, many people who yearn for a more meaningful and fulfilling life would regard the church as an unlikely place to go for guidance.
Hugh MackayBut the rule seems to be that the bigger and more life-changing the decision, the less it will seem like a decision at all.
Hugh Mackay