Love itself is not an act of will, but sometimes I need the force of my volition to break with my habitual responses and pass along the love already here.
Hugh PratherToday I acknowledge that I am not in position to judge what mistakes anyone is making or what lessons anyone needs to learn. I donโt know how far someone has come or when that person will have a breakthrough, I simply donโt know what other people should be doing. But when I think I do know, I clearly am not doing what I should be doing, which is taking responsibility for my own life.
Hugh PratherIt's not that "today is the first day of the rest of my life," but that now is all there is of my life.
Hugh PratherThe first step of letting go: To remove what obstructs your experience of wholeness and peace, you must first look at the obstruction.
Hugh PratherIf your reaction to your partner's fear-or any other form of distress- is disdain or irritation, you do not want oneness or even friendship with your partner at that moment.
Hugh PratherBoredom or discontent is useful to me when I acknowledge it and see clearly my assumption that there's something else I would rather be doing. In this way boredom can act as an invitation to freedom by opening me to new options and thoughts. For example, if I can't change the activity, can I look at it more honestly?
Hugh Prather