Most people are not prepared to have their minds changed, and I think they know in their hearts that other people are just the same, and one of the reasons people become angry when they argue is that they realize just that, as they trot out their excuses.
Iain Banks-"Then what," Lededje asked, trying to keep her voice cold and not get caught up in the avatarยดs obvious enthusiasm, "is making you smile about a disaster?" -"Well, first, I didnยดt cause it! Nothing to do with me, hands clean. Always a bonus.
Iain Banks