What indicates a personโs weak religion and fear of God, is that he seeks for an opinion that suits his desire.
Ibn HazmIf there is someone in need whom you wish to help, whether the initiative came from him or from you, do no more than he expects of you, not what you might personally wish to do. If you overstep the mark, you will not deserve thanks, but blame from him and others and you will attract hostility, not friendship.
Ibn Hazm