Exercise power by means of kindness, and you may be causing more damage than you could by cruelty. Neither approach is correct.
Idries ShahIt is not enough that there is a collection of people with the common aim of working in unison towards an objective... Aspiration and desire only are not enough.
Idries ShahTalking about straws and camels' backs is just one way of approaching things. If you have enough camels, no backs need be broken.
Idries Shah