To lose somebody is to lose not only their person but all those modes and manifestations into which their person has flowed outwards; so that in losing a beloved one may find so many things, pictures, poems, melodies, places lost too: Dante, Avignon, a song of Shakespeare's, the Cornish sea.
Iris MurdochThere is nothing like early promiscuous sex for dispelling life's bright mysterious expectations.
Iris MurdochWe are such inward secret creatures, that inwardness is the most amazing thing about us, even more amazing than our reason.
Iris MurdochPeople from a planet without flowers would think we must be mad with joy the whole time to have such things about us.
Iris Murdochwe are such inward secret creatures, that inwardness the most amazing thing about us, even more amazing than our reason. but we cannot just walk into the cavern and look around. most of what we think we know about our minds is pseudo-knowledge. we are all such shocking poseurs, so good at inflating the importance of what we think we value.
Iris Murdoch