A long marriage is very unifying, even if it's not ideal, and those old structures must be respected.
Iris MurdochThe theatre is certainly a place for learning about the brevity of human glory: oh all those wonderful glittering absolutely vanished pantomime! Now I shall abjure magic and become a hermit : put myself in a situation where I can honestly say that I have nothing else to do but to learn to be good.
Iris MurdochLove is the perception of individuals. Love is the extremely difficult realisation that something other than oneself is real.
Iris Murdoch