If one is to learn to live with the dead, one must first learn to live with the living!
Irvin D. YalomOne thing I feel clear about is that it's important not to let your life live you. Otherwise, you end up at forty feeling you haven't really lived. What have I learned? Perhaps to live now, so that at fifty I won't look back upon my forties with regret.
Irvin D. Yalom