I'm in an agreeable state: busy, enthusiastic, curious.
One can not love without opening oneself, and opening oneself, that's taking the risk of suffering. One does not have control.
One can be emptied out and be filled up.
But no one frees himself from being in love in three days.
In love, one should simplify, choose persons worthy of their promises and leave them if they don't keep them.
The Method is Judeo-Christian: if you go through pain, you can't miss. Rubbish. I'm more interested in the box itself than what's in it. How vs why.