Crying purifies and cleanses. I once read about a scientific experiment which demonstrated that there are 38 toxic chemicals in a tear of sadness, while only one toxin exists in a tear of joy. As you cry in sadness, fear, or confusion, you cleanse the body and spirit of toxins which cloud the mind and prevent it from accepting the truth.
Iyanla VanzantLove people enough to tell them the truth and respect them enough to trust that they can handle it.
Iyanla VanzantYou are demonstrating to men that they can come back and get their kids. All of those fatherless sons and daddy-less daughters and the men who didn't know how to go back, you are demonstrating to the world that they can.
Iyanla VanzantAnger simply means that your personal power - your personal space, your personal sense of being - has been violated
Iyanla Vanzant