Everyone is always looking for their beloved. Well, why can't you be your own beloved? Fall in love with yourself.
Iyanla VanzantYou are never angry for the reason you think you are. There's an older hurt under that.
Iyanla VanzantWhen the time comes for you to make a change or to grow, the universe will make you so uncomfortable you will eventually have no choice.
Iyanla VanzantThe event is not what you should be working on. You should be working on your response or reaction to an event. You either react to it - that means you become victimized, and you say this thing is happening to you - or you respond to it and say the solution must come through you - that's where you stay focused, not on the rightness, wrongness, fairness of the event, but on the appropriateness of your response.
Iyanla Vanzant