I admire the linear and decisive way a certain kind of man thinks, to my curlicue boundless overthinking.

Every woman needs secrets,' her mother said with a smile then, her eyes meeting Sally's in the rearview mirror. 'Remember that when you're old like me, pumpkin, because the world has a way of making a woman's life everyone else's business--you have to dig out a little place that's only yours.

I like dressing up for dates and dissecting a dinner conversation with a new guy to determine if he might be The One.

I admire the linear and decisive way a certain kind of man thinks, to my curlicue boundless overthinking.

A kid thinks her mother is just that -- hers. A mother is also a woman, an independent being, who doesn't want to be reminded by anyone, child or otherwise, of her tree-trunk thighs. The world made women's private lives a public affair to people who knew them and even people who didn't.

Women leave their marriages when they can't take any more. Men leave when they find someone new.

If things had been different, she would be in Carolyn's place right now. She didn't want that sort of existence, but there was something so attractive about the security of feeling like you had stopped moving toward your life, and actually arrived.