No man or woman alive, magical or not, has ever escaped some form of injury, whether physical, mental, or emotional. To hurt is as human as to breathe.
Luck can only get you so far.
You are protected, in short, by your ability to love!
When people are very damaged, they can often meet the world with a kind of defiance.
If I wasn't a writer, I would be depressed.
Understanding is the first step to acceptance, and only with acceptance can there be recovery.