The great sin of the average Christian is ignorance of the word of God.
Don't say that a loving God is going to send you to hell- He's not. The thing that's going to send you to hell is that you're a sinner and you don't want to admit it.
What is in the well of the heart will come up through the bucket of the mouth.
The Bible. Know it in your head. Stow it in your heart. Show it in your life. Sow it in the world.
As someone has said, we either crucify or crown the Lord Jesus by our lives.
Our Lord even gives you suffering that you might share the comfort you receive from Him with somebody who is suffering!