When someone tells a man to be a man, they mean that there is a way to be a man. A man is not just a thing to be-it is also a way to be, a path to follow and a way to walk. Some try to make manhood mean everything. Others believe that it means nothing at all. Being good at being a man can't mean everything, and it has always meant something.
Jack DonovanA man who is more concerned with being a good man than being good at being a man makes a very well-behaved slave.
Jack DonovanMen of ideas and men of action have much to learn from each other, and the truly great are men of both action and abstraction.
Jack DonovanSometimes men pick fights just for something to do-just to feel something like the threat of harm and the possibility of triumph.
Jack DonovanCivilization comes at a cost of manliness. It comes at a cost of wildness, of risk, of strife. It comes at a cost of strength, of courage, of mastery. It comes at a cost of honor. Increased civilization exacts a toll of virility, forcing manliness into further redoubts of vicariousness and abstraction.
Jack Donovan