A man is not merely a man but a man among men, in a world of men. Being good at being a man has more to do with a manโs ability to succeed with men and within groups of men than it does with a manโs relationship to any woman or any group of women. When someone tells a man to be a man, they are telling him to be more like other men, more like the majority of men, and ideally more like the men who other men hold in high regard.
Jack DonovanViolence is the gold standard, the reserve that guarantees order. In actuality, it is better than a gold standard, because violence has universal value. Violence transcends the quirks of philosophy, religion, technology, and culture. () It's time to quit worrying and learn to love the battle axe. History teaches us that if we don't, someone else will.
Jack DonovanMen of ideas and men of action have much to learn from each other, and the truly great are men of both action and abstraction.
Jack DonovanWhen someone tells a man to be a man, they mean that there is a way to be a man. A man is not just a thing to be-it is also a way to be, a path to follow and a way to walk. Some try to make manhood mean everything. Others believe that it means nothing at all. Being good at being a man can't mean everything, and it has always meant something.
Jack Donovan