In corporate culture, in sports culture, in the media, we honor those who win at all costs.
We talk about how many women were raped last year, not about how many men raped women.
In real life, women dont enjoy being degraded and treated like objects/receptacles.
Language usage always has a political context.
It's a bad thing that happens to women, but when you look at that term 'violence against women,' nobody is doing it to them. It just happens to them. Men aren't even a part of it.
There's been an awful lot of silence in make culture about this ongoing tragedy of men's violence against women and children... we need to break that silence, and we need more men to do that.