Spontaneity is the province of youth
Some chains are forged for us - those are the hardest to bear.
We may not have demon fathers dangling offers of infernal power before us, but everyone understands what it means to struggle with temptation or resist the urge to give in to our baser natures.
There is no fulfillment that is not made sweeter for the prolonging of desire
And Kushiel sends no punishment that we are not fit to bear.
To recongnize that the treachery of one member of a house does not taint all born within it