What distinguished my life from my brother's is that my mother didn't like me. When I became a woman, I seemed to repel her.

America is not so much a country as it is an idea, and that must be why so many people are drawn to it, the idea of it, the idea that you might be free of your past, free of the traditions that kept you in your own traditions - that is the idea of it: freedom from your very own self.

I'll read anything. In fact, I'll read while I'm doing other things, which is not a good idea.

Once you cease to be a master, once you throw off your master's yoke, you are no longer human rubbish, you are a human being, and all the things that adds up to. So, too, with the slaves. Once they are no longer slaves, once they are free, they are no longer noble and exalted; they are just human beings.

The thing we call romance is a diversion from something truer, which is life.

I used to want to be a backup singer. Not a lead singer, because I really can't sing.

I don't feel I'm angry. I feel as though I'm describing something true. If I had stabbed my husband, I could understand being called "angry." If I had an affair with my husband's best friend and written about that experience, I could see the anger. But I'm not doing that.