If you let a child know that you think he is lazy, sloppy, untruthful, unpleasant, and thoughtless, he'll probably prove you are right. Obviously, it is much better to make him stretch to reach a positive image than stoop to match one at ground level.
James DobsonReal crying usually lasts two minutes or less, but may continue for five. After that point, the child is merely complaining... I would require him to stop the protest crying, usually by offering him a little more of whatever caused the original tears.
James DobsonAlthough individual temperaments vary, boys are designed to be more assertive, audacious, and excitable than girls are.
James DobsonShow me a husband who keeps his thoughts to himself, and I will show you a frustrated wife.
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