Our lives are determined less by our childhood than by the traumatic way we have learned to remember our childhoods.
James HillmanI think there is such a thing as a bad seed that comes to flower in certain people. The danger with that theory is that we begin to look for those "troublemakers" early on and try to weed them out. That's very dangerous, because it could work against kids who are just routine troublemakers.
James HillmanI have found that the person with a sense of story built in from childhood is in better shape than one who has not had stories . . One knows what stories can do, how they can make up worlds and transpose existence into these worlds. . . .One learns that worlds are made by words and not only by hammers and wires.
James HillmanWhat I try to point out is the role an ordinary person can have in seeing the child's destiny. You have to have a feeling for the child.
James Hillman