This business of really knowing people, deep down, including your own self, it is not something you can learn in school or from a book. It takes your whole being to do itโyour eyes and your ears, your brain and your heart. Maybe your heart most of all. โBobby Goodspeed
James HoweAnother thing I think about names is that they DO hurt. They hurt because we believe them. We think they are telling us something true about ourselves, something other people can see even if we don't. โBobby Goodspeed
James HoweThe point is that something I thought was perfect has been broken, and I'm having to find the beauty in what is there instead of what I thought was there. Like this shell. I can either spend all my time wishing it were perfect, trying to imagine it the way it was or might have been, or I can see how beautiful it is just like this.
James Howe