So, the total number of hours spent on the stuff you have to do to take care of a family, working and caring for stuff at home, the total number of hours is actually about the same for mothers and fathers.

I thought I'd write one book and the world would change overnight

It was just that we had this phenomenal honeymoon relationship that just kept on going.

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We found that when people put this issue on the table, it turns out that men acknowledge the issue, and employers and employees can work out solutions just as working mothers do.

A lot of people get impatient with the pace of change.

And, over the last thirty years we have seen men's participation in both housework and childcare has increased and women's have stayed at about the same.