It doesn't take billions of dollars or complex medical technologies, and there doesn't have to be a dramatic upending to the current order. It's trying to change the mindset of people who deal with youth to have less judgement and more curiosity. That's asking a lot, emotionally it's asking people to step up and engage more. But what I often heard was that is easier for them to engage emotionally, than to just be angry and judgmental.
James RedfordI think the macho mystique was far more a guiding principle in our Dad's generation than ours, the 'strong silent type' was much more common.
James RedfordThe word 'resilience,' in our American culture is closely aligned with 'grit,' and that word implies a certain moral fiber that says you can survive and thrive in any adversity, because you are strong - but that message of strength is both disqualifying and problematic.
James RedfordMany people have overcome that home situation simply by having at least one caring adult, whether a teacher, mentor or religious leader.
James Redford