When I have my Afro and walk down the street, there's no doubt that I'm black. With this [straightened] hair, if I talk about being black on air, viewers write and say, "You're black?!" I feel [straightening your hair] is giving up a sense of your identity. Let's be honest: It's an effort to look Anglo-Saxon.
Jami FloydMy mother's white, and she didn't know how to do my hair, so I had something that I always call white-mama hair.
Jami FloydMy parents pressed upon me that "In this world, you are a black woman," so I was political about my hair and would not straighten it.
Jami FloydFor black women our sense of ourselves is not always consistent with the way other people see us.
Jami Floyd