I've been happily married to Chris for almost 20 years.
If you just watch a teenager, you see a lot of uncertainty.
Recovery is an acceptance that your life is in shambles and you have to change it.
I used to dream of being normal. For me, if Kirk Douglas walked into the house, that was normal.
I have a rule: Pretend you're going on a trip for two weeks, and pull what you'd wear on that two-week trip, and get rid of everything else.
Now all of a sudden I'm so less interested in pretending to be a lot of other people, and much more interested in being me.