to achieve unity without uniformity is the whole essence of the democratic way of life.
Jan StrutherA single person is a manageable entity, whom you can either make friends with or leave alone. But half of a married couple is not exactly a whole human being: if the marriage is successful it is something a little more than that; if unsuccessful, a little less. In either case, a fresh complication is added to the already intricate business of friendship: as Clem had once remarked, you might as well try to dance a tarantella with a Siamese twin.
Jan Struther[Gardening] is a means by which you can attain many valuable hours of solitude without being thought unsociable.
Jan Struther