I believe you [men] capable of everything great and good in your married lives. I believe you equal to every important exertion, and to every domestic forbearance, so long as - if I may be allowed the expression, so long as you have an object. I mean, while the woman you love lives, and lives for you. All the privilege I claim for my own sex (it is not a very enviable one, you need not covet it) is that of loving longest, when existence or when hope is gone.
Jane AustenEvery young lady may feel for my heroine in this critical moment, for every young lady has at some time or other known the same agitation.
Jane AustenWhat one means one day, you know, one may not mean the next. Circumstances change, opinions alter.
Jane Austen