A persuadable temper might sometimes be as much in favour of happiness as a very resolute character.
Jane AustenI do not think it worth while to wait for enjoyment until there is some real opportunity for it.
Jane AustenI never wish to offend, but I am so foolishly shy, that I often seem negligent, when I am only kept back by my natural awkwardness ... Shyness is only the effect of a sense of inferiority in some way or other. If I could persuade myself that my manners were perfectly easy and graceful, I should not be shy.
Jane Austen