Vanity and pride are different things, though the words are often used synonymously. A person may be proud without being vain. Pride relates more to our opinion of ourselves; vanity, to what we would have others think of us.
Jane AustenMy Emma, does not every thing serve to prove more and more the beauty of truth and sincerity in all our dealings with each other?
Jane AustenHeaven forbid! -- That would be the greatest misfortune of all! -- To find a man agreeable whom one is determined to hate! -- Do not wish me such an evil.
Jane Austen