When you can't remember why you're hurt, that's when you're healed. When you have to work real hard to re-create the pain, and you can't quite get there, that's when you're better.

The more you treat yourself positively, the less you'll want or need to be negative.

We need women friends, women who challenge us.

When a child enters the world through you, it alters everything on a psychic, psychological and purely practical level.

The people who did you wrong or who didn't quite know how to show up, you forgive them. And forgiving them allows you to forgive yourself too.

To be a revolutionary you have to be a human being. You have to care about people who have no power.

Parents are supposed to give the child back to herself with love. If they've got duct tape over their eyes because of narcissism, it doesn't happen.