Hate is love looking for itself everyplace but where love is.
Dreaming or awake, we perceive only events that have meaning to us.
You are in physical existence to learn and understand that your energy, translated into feelings, thoughts and emotions, causes all experience. There are no exceptions.
When we give way to joy, we do not feel that we have lost control, but gained freedom.
Suffering is not good for the soul, unless it teaches you how to stop suffering. That is its purpose.
Personally, I am convinced the human personality does survive the change which we call death. Although we have no scientific evidence of this at present, there is no reason to suppose it will always be lacking.