I say, when your hair turns gray and your children think they know who you are, do the thing that shakes up who you think you are, even who you had prided yourself on being. When all those around you say they simply don't recognize you any longer, that's the real compliment.
Jane SmileyWith preference came point of view; with point of view, personality; with personality, uniqueness; with uniqueness, grief.
Jane Smiley