you know that the urge for revenge is a fact of marital life.

You know what getting married is? It's agreeing to taking this person who right now is at the top of his form, full of hopes and ideas, feeling good, looking good, wildly interested in you because you're the same way, and sticking by him while he slowly disintegrates. And he does the same for you. You're his responsibility now and he's yours. If no one else will take care of him, you will. If everyone else rejects you, he won't. What do you think love is? Going to bed all the time?

My mom was paranoid about my safety.

Candy is my fuel. Ice cream, too.

There is something I have noticed about desire, that it opens the eyes and strikes them blind at the same time.

A novelist has two lives-- a reading and writing life, and a lived life. he or she cannot be understood at all apart from this.

Giving his lecture for the third time freed Dr. Lionel Gift from paying much attention to it. He had a naturally expressive style of delivery, hones over the years in elementary-econ lecture halls. He knew, without even thinking, to address the middle rows of the hall, but to occasionally "shoot" the listeners in the back corners. He knew how to make eye contact and solicit the attention of those who were thinking of other things.