When you're dating, abstinence is a greater expression of love than making love, because you're doing what's best for your beloved, not just what feels good in the moment.
Jason EvertCompatible comes from the Latin "compati", meaning "to suffer with". If you are not willing to suffer with someone until death do you part, then you are not compatible.
Jason EvertIf you own pornography of any kind, for the love of your future spouse, trash it immediately.
Jason Evert