If you decide to live a pure life, don't expect the world to understand your decision.
Compatible comes from the Latin "compati", meaning "to suffer with". If you are not willing to suffer with someone until death do you part, then you are not compatible.
Carry the rosary with you everywhere, and it will carry you through anything.
If you own pornography of any kind, for the love of your future spouse, trash it immediately.
Indecision is a decision.
Look at a crucifix. This is how I got my bride to heaven. How else do you think you will get yours there?