Sex is not a tryout. If she fails to live up to your expectations in the bedroom, will you love her less? If so, you can be certain you never loved her to begin with.

We know from the book of Genesis that God created men and women 'in His image and likeness.' We know from the first letter of John that 'God is Love.' Therefore, men and women are made in the image and likeness of Love. This isn't hard to see. Look at the design of the male and female bodies. They are made for each other. In fact, neither one makes complete sense apart from the other.

Treat your date with the respect and purity you hope your future spouse will have. Keep in mind how you will expect a young man to treat your daughter one day. By listening to your conscience in this way, you'll have a good idea of where to draw the line.

The right relationship won't distract you from God. It will bring you closer to Him.

If by how you dress, you are saying to guys, "Hey, look at my body," why would a guy want to get to know you?

Women are not thousands of temptations to hell. They are thousands of reminders of the beauty of heaven.

Purity is not about following a list of rules so that you'll avoid hell. It's about wanting heaven for the person you love.